Personal support during your Divorce & Financial Dispute Resolution.
Divorce is deeply personal and, for most couples, a painful period in their lives. The process should be about helping you and your partner reach a fair and amicable agreement. Unfortunately, that focus can get lost incredibly quickly once you enter the formal legal system.
I offer confidential, honest and practical step-by-step guidance for people who want to navigate divorce without spending life changing sums of money. My approach is based on real-life experience. I help you cut through the noise, tackle the paperwork, and prepare for court submissions or hearings. No flannel—just the simple, strategic steps you need to take to protect your assets and reach a fair settlement.
For many cases this process can be amicable and straight forward. Unfortunately it can also become litigious, creating bitterness between once-loving partners. My aim is to prevent this conflict wherever possible. However, if a firm approach is required to make the other party see sense and adhere to the law we will take it.
I am not legally qualified. However, I believe I can genuinely help people. I also have limitations and If at any stage I believe you need formal legal advice I will tell you immediately. This is about you and your partner, two people trying to get a clean break so they can move on with their lives.
Before you pay fees to anyone, we need to address the court's first question: Have you and your partner attended any form of mediation or non court dispute resolution? If not, the court will demand a valid legal reason why.
My promise: I will treat your divorce as if it were my own.
A Friendly Voice (COMING SOON)
Guidance from someone who has been there.
Legal proceedings can be daunting. The paperwork can feel like a foreign language designed to overwhelm you. You may not have access to the court portal. And you could well find the opposing Solicitor anything but helpful.
In this short video, I explain how we work together to steady any nerves, organise your financial disclosure, and prepare you to face the court with professional confidence.
I focus on practical support. You do not have to sit at your kitchen table stressing over your Form E. We can walk through every step together.
COMING SOON
COMING SOON. Video: A personal message of hope and guidance.
The three financial hearings
First Appointment (FDA)
Financial Dispute Resolution (FDR)
The Final Hearing
The court determines what financial information is missing and gives administrative direction. I help you prepare your Form E and questionnaire so you avoid costly solicitor delays.
A settlement meeting where the judge gives an opinion. I help you understand the proposals and stand firm against aggressive legal pressure.
If no agreement is reached, the judge makes a binding decision. I ensure your paperwork is pristine and your voice is clearly heard.
Important Notice
Personal support, not legal representation
This is not a big business. I am one man, my name is Douglas, and I offer honest guidance and support to those who are going through a divorce and either can't afford a solicitor or don't want to spend their life savings on legal advice. I am not a solicitor or barrister. I do not provide legal advice, act as your legal representative, or speak on your behalf in court. My role is to offer you the very things that satisfy the court and make a clean break settlement possible: practical preparation, emotional reassurance, and honest guidance through your paperwork. This can involve managing communication with your partners solicitor, hopefully a good one with the parties best interest at heart.
Prefer to speak to a human directly? Call or text me or click the WhatsApp button. If I am supporting another client, please leave a voicemail and I will return your call personally.
Call, WhatsApp or Text: 07570 564629
E-mail: support@divorce4lips.co.uk
Available: Divorce rarely follows a 9-to-5 schedule, solicitors can and do challenge at the last minute. For this reason my hours are flexible to help you manage stressful moments. If you reach out during evenings/weekends, please leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I am free.
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Legal Disclaimer & Terms of Service
I am an independent divorce consultant. I am not a regulated solicitor or barrister, and I do not provide formal legal advice, act as your legal representative, or speak on your behalf in court. My service offers practical administration, guidance, support with document preparation and emotional reassurance based on real-life experience. Engaging my services does not create a solicitor-client relationship. If at any stage I believe you require regulated legal representation or formal legal advice, I will advise you to seek qualified legal advice immediately.