Why I Do this.

To help others who find themselves in the same position my wife and I did when facing a fairly simple 50/50 split. Help to navigate a financial dispute and reach an amicable resolution without spending a large percentage of their lifetime savings.

During my own mutually agreed divorce the financial dispute was the most contentious. For this reason I chose to employ a law firm to represent me, they gave me excellent advice, however, by the time the case reached the first administrative hearing my legal bill was over £22K. Out of necessity I made a decision to represent myself as a Litigant in Person (L.I.P).

I didn't understand, I do now, the challenge of supplying the extensive evidence requested to satisfy a Judge. The last minute legal challenges from solicitors. The anxiety of watching legal bills mount every month! The emotional strain and anxiety ridden sleepless nights. Add to this the anxiety of attending court and the exasperation of the Judge as they witness deadlock and mutually assured destruction of the couple's financial security!

Having spoken to a number of people in a similar position they told me of their self litigation frustration: last minute court submissions, misleading accusations and obstructive behaviour from their partners Solicitor. All adding unnecessary costs and further anxiety.

No wonder many shy away from self litigation. However the experience taught me a lesson: family law does not have to be a misery or a mystery.

Not all cases need lawyers. Most parties need practical and emotional support. Help to steady their nerves before a hearing, and help to focus on a fair settlement. They need support to tackled the many Forms and including the court-mandated ES2 asset spreadsheet: see link: (https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/financial-remedy-summary-of-finances-form-es2).

I faced and overcome some strong legal challenges. Many requiring urgent action/personal visits to the court to hand my own documents to the Judge. And I stood my ground firmly, calmly and honestly during fairly intimidating court hearings.

I successfully managed my own high-value case. YOU can too!

For many their biggest regret is the cost and bitterness of solicitors pitting one against the other.

This is why I started this service.

IMPORTANT. There are times when legal advice is necessary. Should that time come, I would suggest you to seek the help of a qualified solicitor.